oh my, this afternoon we have been exchanging such steamy texts, I am now totally moist where I should not be, and totally turned on. And I don't see R until next Monday!

If our offices were only a 100km closer together,  then we would not have got any work done at all this afternoon I think

what did we do before mobile phones ?

Today I am more motivated and have actually set my goals, both career and personal. We have a good form to use which analyses strengths and areas requiring development, so I worked through that, formulated some goals which indicate that I want to stay where I am for the next 3 years or so, but am open to working away for short assignments or for a week per month or so.
By the time 3 years are up, my youngest will have left school, and I can decide just what I want from my relationship with hubbie, and whether it is worth me hanging around.
One of my work collegues has just got a new girlfriend actually. He split up from his wife fairly recently, after she had an affair. He was devastated, but now it seems it is working out for them all. His new girlfriend is also getting a divorce from her husband, and has 2 children similar ages to his 2. His wife is still happy with the guy she left him for, all the kids know each other, and the adults do too. He is very happy, and I am really pleased for him. He is still as financially broke as ever, but you can't have everything