In my previous post I wrote of my soul connection. R asked me what time I had this feeling, 2.30 I said. He wouldn't tell me what had happened, but something had, it was too complicated to explain on the phone.
Now he has mailed, to tell me that at 2.30 yesterday afternoon, he was alone, with a woman 20 years younger, whom he had been helping. He tends to do this. There is a word for someone who helps others for no personal reward but I have forgotten it. Anyway, he has been helping this particularly lady recently, and had told me about it. I had warned him that she might fall in love with him, but he dismissed it because of the age difference. At 2.30 yesterday, this lady was declaring her love for him.
He told her that he did not love her, could not love her, and she was distraught. The poor woman has had a lot of problems, I understand why she fell for him. He is kind, he helped her, she responded to his kindness.
It is like someone falling in love with her therapist.
Anyway, it was hard for R to calm her to a state where he felt it was safe to leave her.
And that is what I connected with. Or maybe it was just coincidence 
but I don't think so.
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It will be a common occurance with people in R's position I should imagine...He appears to have dealt with it well....don't let this begin anything leading to a finale...x
 | sidejump [Member] 2008-04-14 @ 06:22 |
I won't. I trust him. Funny isn't it; We who betray other peoples trust, can trust those we are with.
I feel sorry for the other woman actually. I can imagine how she must be feeling. Declaring this love, and now he will not see her again. She must be devastated.
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 | rainee [Member] 2008-04-21 @ 20:48 |
I like the idea that you trust someone who is cheating on someone else with you. I can totally understand that honour among thieves kind of trust you refer to. But I wanted to ask if there are any rules between the two of you regarding being faithful to each other. for example, i would imagine that having sex or a romantic evening with your collective partners is ok but what about if he were to have a thing with this younger woman, would that be breaking the rules?
Sorry to intrude again, just find it all really interesting. x
| sidejump [Member] 2008-04-21 @ 21:24 |
we have agreed to be faithful to each other (apart from our partners of course), but it is more because we want to be faithful to each other. He would know if I strayed, and I could not hurt him like that, and I know he could not hurt me in a similar way. I am not sure if I would know if he strayed, but I think I would. Seeing as how we are so well attuned.
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