Since I had the crucial conversation with my husband, I must admit he is definately trying 
trying to be nice that is. He is being very helpful around the house, cooking, ironing, even a bit of cleaning.
Today we went for a walk, and he held my hand, apologized even for boring me with something he was way too animated about !
Normally he doesn't notice if I am not interested in the thing he is dieing to talk to me about. Now, don't get me wrong fellas, but I just can't get excited about DVD ripping software. That is what you guys discuss, like work and sport. Women prefer to talk about people, and feelings.
So today, he did notice I was not interested, and did apologize, so good on him
I feel a bit guilty, as I can't stop thinking about R, and I know that if I was not having such a wonderful time with R, I would probably be trying harder with my husband. This is the downside of having an affair and falling in love with the lover. An ex lover of mine warned of this. Just keep it to sex he reckoned, and of course he is right, but we cannot always control our emotions like that.
Oh what a tangled web we weave,
When first we practise to deceive!
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I heard of that saying but never knew it had a second bit!
Least you and your hubby and bonding again. 
x
 | sidejump [Member] 2008-03-30 @ 08:04 |
I always thought it was Shakespeare, but it is not, it was Sir Walter Scott.
.. what do you really want?? ...oooppsss!! 
| sidejump [Member] 2008-03-30 @ 08:02 |
good question, and maybe the subject of a post in its own right, when I work it out
 | annameenamoon [Member] 2008-03-30 @ 15:06 |
Sounds complicated. I am feeling sad for yr hubs but all that help and interest in you is probably too late.
Having fallen in love with yr lover would you be able to give him up and settle back with yr husband?
That will answer what you want............
Rowing Boat or Rollercoaster x
| sidejump [Member] 2008-04-02 @ 22:09 |
another good question, and currently the answer is no. But deep down I have a feeling that R is also not "the one", and he was not meant to be. He was meant to be my lover, and he makes an excellant lover. And I am really happy I don't have to give him up at present.
 | antlady69 pro http://www.antmusic-forever.blog.co.uk 2008-04-02 @ 13:11 |
Anna ^^ has already said it: your hubby's interest in you NOW is probably a bit too late. But at least he's trying!
Don't mean to offend you, but maybe it went both ways: he not being interested in what you do and think, and you not interested in his stuff (ok, I understand your lack of interest in DVD ripping software).
No real solution to your problem, methinks. You may just have to continue with both your family and R and see how it works out.
xx
| sidejump [Member] 2008-04-02 @ 22:06 |
no offence taken. He probably is not interested in what I am in to. That is part of the problem isn't it? A couple need to have some common interests, and other than the kids, and the great outdoors, we don't. Even with the great outdoors, he prefers the more rugged version than I do
Doomed, I know
 | rainee [Member] 2008-04-05 @ 22:41 |
Wow, i am just getting into blogging and have never really checked out what people blog about before. But when I read yours, i was very surprised at the honesty of the subject matter. Dont get me wrong, i like to hear the real stuff and get a bit bored with sofa talk and interior decor.
Hope you dont mind me asking, does your husband know your having an affair? What happend that made your marriage first start to go down that route?
I enjoyed reading though. x
| sidejump [Member] 2008-04-05 @ 22:50 |
hi rainee. I can be honest, as I am hiding behind my anonimity.
In answer to your questions, no he does not. He really has no idea. The answer to your second is complicated. I will see if I can find an earlier post for you 
 | Prettyintelligentprincess [Member] 2008-04-06 @ 01:15 |
My hub asked me outright tonight!!!!
And I said no...cos actually I am not!
| sidejump [Member] 2008-04-06 @ 11:06 |
ah, a technicality saved you then
my hubbie has never asked me, you need to take care PIP.
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