Since I had the crucial conversation with my husband, I must admit he is definately trying trying to be nice that is. He is being very helpful around the house, cooking, ironing, even a bit of cleaning.
Today we went for a walk, and he held my hand, apologized even for boring me with something he was way too animated about !
Normally he doesn't notice if I am not interested in the thing he is dieing to talk to me about. Now, don't get me wrong fellas, but I just can't get excited about DVD ripping software. That is what you guys discuss, like work and sport. Women prefer to talk about people, and feelings.
So today, he did notice I was not interested, and did apologize, so good on him
I feel a bit guilty, as I can't stop thinking about R, and I know that if I was not having such a wonderful time with R, I would probably be trying harder with my husband. This is the downside of having an affair and falling in love with the lover. An ex lover of mine warned of this. Just keep it to sex he reckoned, and of course he is right, but we cannot always control our emotions like that.
Oh what a tangled web we weave,
When first we practise to deceive!

or should I type pills for thought? Doesn't quite have the same ring to it.
Anyway the pills in question are those wonder pills Viagra, which apparently have been around 10 years now. Originally developed to help heart patients, they are now very popular with lots of men, and women
Anyway, there was a news item about it last night on our local news. They interviewed an elderly couple, must be mid 70's. They are great fans of Viagra. The man was saying about the importance of sex so long as they could still manage, and more importantly as long as the desire was still there. "The viagra is just something to help, but you need the desire as well".
It was sweet, and the couple still took care in their appearance for each other etc.
My husband was watching this item in complete silence. I wonder what was going through his mind

my 16 year old daughter texted me at work yesterday to tell me she has a boyfriend now. Nice of her to let me know
She has met him a few times apparently, when she told me she was with a girlfriend. She is as devious as me!
I think she is working up to us meeting him. Should I be worried?

I have a feeling that now is the time for a girls talk, but not sure how to approach this. advice welcome.

So, back at the office after the Easter weekend. The weather was crap, so I didn't do much. I did eat some choccie bunnies (ears first) of course, but I also made it to the Gym for one session. First time in 2 months!
Yesterday my hubbie woke up with a stiffie, we won't go into what followed, other than it was not all that satisfying for me, but I reckon it was for him.
R is back from his hols, and so on Thursday we see each other. I will be totally satisfied by the end of Thursday.
He emailed this morning to say he had loads of work, and has been at the office since 5am! I did offer to meet him for just a few hours in that case on Thursday, but no way was he having that. He wants me for the whole day, so I am very pleased to hear it
he can have me, any which way he wants.........
I have gathered together a few surprises, and will pop to the nest on Wed evening to prepare it for him. I wanted to stay over, but as I was away last week, and I will be away next week ( in the UK ) I couldn't think of an excuse why I would be away overnight again this week, so instead I will get up really early on Thursday. It will be well worth it - for us both

So have a good week you guys, it is only short, not so bad

Pretty intelligent princess is exploding, so is our mutual friend I imagine, and so am I.
R is back in a few days. He is packing his case now, he has missed me, and I have missed him. I have missed his touch, I have missed his lips on mine, I have missed the passion of our unions. I need him back now, I need to feel him, to feel his desires, to let myself go, to be satisfied.

One week until we meet, I can barely contain myself

Just been reading a fascinating article Q&A with a high class call girls, following this scandal in NY. Personally I think that at least the guy didn't deny it, like a certain president tried to do. But he was a total Hypocrite, so in a way it is just desserts.

But going back to the interview, which you can read here

a couple of things struck me that the girl said about the service she was doing to married men, and about whether laws should be the moral compass for society. Later in the article, she says that she fell in love, every time. I know the feeling
 Personally I think Prostitution should be legal and regulated, and then it would be a lot better for a lot of people

: Who was your typical client?

A: The average client that I met in New York City was 25-45, well-dressed, well-groomed, very well-mannered, well-educated — a lot of times from New York; mostly Wall Street, lawyers, CEOs, businessmen, hedge fund managers. About half of them were single, about half of them were married.

The single guys were guys who were super-ambitious, tons of testosterone, very alpha-male types who work really, really hard and don’t necessarily have the free time to go out on dates.

A lot of the married guys, one of the things I used to believe at the time was that I was actually doing a service for these guys, because rather than having an affair with their secretary and potentially ruining their lives, they would come see me, satisfy their needs physically and some of the companionship they wanted — going on a date, having fun, relaxing — and being able to sustain their marriage. Apparently that’s what some people need.

Q: Did you think you were doing anything wrong?

A: I didn’t feel like I was doing anything evil. But you have to look at what are laws for? Are they to dictate what’s right and what’s wrong, or what is safe and what is not safe? Should laws be the moral compass for society? I do know that I didn’t feel like what I was doing was evil or malicious in any way.  

I just realised that Lindow has vanished. Did I miss a post explaining he was leaving? Or did he just leave?
I hate it when people just leave us without warning. We are your mates, we read your posts, we know a little bit about the parts of your lives you want to tell us. In a lot of cases we know more than real flesh and blood friends.
Would you move away without informing real friends? Just because we are virtual does not mean we will not miss you.

So bye Lindow, if you happen to look in, I noticed

oh and Phinebooty has not been online for a while now, I hope she is okay.

and I did not cheat to get this result

You Are Aphrodite!

A total shining star with a ton of admirers And no wonder: you live life to the fullest! When things get bad, you can easily take off to a happier place But occasionally, you need to deal with problems head on

ok, this should appeal to all us frustrated wives well and girlfriends too actually.

A man goes to the doctor for something, and whilst there he complains that his wife is always in a bad mood. The doctor suggests he brings her along with him next time he comes.
So the next time he goes, he takes his wife. The doctor seems very taken with her, and chats to her, compliments her, laughs with her and by the end of the appointment she is in a fine mood.
On the way out, the doctor says to the husband, You see, that is what your wife needs 3 times a week. The man replies, " hmm, okay, but do I always have to come with her?"