This morning on my way to Church I received a text message from Jeff. Now when did I break up with Jeff? Must have been 7 or 8 months ago. I had told him that my husband had found out about us. Not strictly true, well not true at all actually, but I was letting him down kindly.

Trouble is that every now and then he sends a text, in the hope that all the dust has settled and we can resume our previous activities. I wish he would just find another lover, but he says he doesn't want to. Maybe I should be flattered, but I know with him it is mainly about the sex. His text today didn't ask how I am getting on or anything, or gently suggest a coffee. No, he was straight into his desire to have sex with me again, and that after all this time it cannot be dangerous.

I don't want to upset the guy. It could get unpredictable. So after Church I sent him a "sorry but no" text. I told him that things were going well for me at the moment, and I have no need for anyone else.
I think he got the message, as he didn't text back. I hope so.

Maybe I should have been honest up front, too nice I am at times.